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Friday, January 16, 2009

Friday Night with approximately 142 teenagers!!!

Our First Coffee Break Service in the Refinery at Faith Baptist Church, Youngsville, NC


What would possess Adults over the age of 30 to spend 5 hours with approximately 142 teenagers, listening to loud music?

LOVE!!! One of the teenagers was our son. Our neighbors kids and several of our youth from church and many of them bring school friends and neighbors that do not attend our church. What an awesome ministry.

Our youth department has a room filled with a kitchenette area, a stage, pool table, tv with game console thing, air hockey table, fooseball and ping pong. They have different Christian Rock bands come in twice a month and play. They serve food the kids like, pizza, nachos, coffee, hot chocolate and sodas. It is so cool to see these kids talk about hanging out at church on a Friday night with Chaperones!!! They know adults are coming and they still enjoy being there, hanging out all night. What an awesome way to really get to know these kids and their friends. Spend 5 hours serving them non-nutritious food, scream so they can hear you, and listen to the band with them.

We had such a good time hanging out. I finally got to go out and listen to music on a Friday night!!! It only took 8 years....

The Band was To The Republic, a local Christan Rock Band, Check out their website www.myspace.com/totherepublicmusic

What a week!... What have we become??????

{Blog readers, PAUSE THE PLAYLIST PLAYER BE CLICKING ON THE II BUTTON BEFORE STARTING THE VIDEO :) }

Oh, what a week ..... heavy hearted and overloaded brain (yes, pre-existing condition, but..still painful). Here we are 15 days into the New Year and oh, man it is going to be an interesting year! In just my little circle of friends and family we have "lost" 30 loved ones, we have 6 badies-toddlers struggling with medical conditions, 3 marriages have ended, 2 families have been forever changed with custody issues. Life in acadamia has been just as eventful and stressing. Philosophy has always anerved me. Psychology and sociology kind of scare me (ha ha, yes more than my own shadow). It is so hard to see these "foreign concepts" that people live by and to see their lives in utter turmoil and pain and unable to help them because they do not want to hear your "values and beliefs of God" and feel you are oppressing them. Counseling is such as strange little profession. People are the most challenging and facinating creatures God created. I am so challenged and desiring to see the connection that is stated in Genesis, that humans are created in God's image. We are capable of so much and yet.... We decide to not do anything but that which we "want" and that will benefit us. Oh how sad!. Thankfully God did not just work for his own pleasure, he thought about mankind when he sent his only son to save us, and that gave him pleasure to reclaim us from our savageness and selfishness.

What???? you are lower than lower, you are depressed, angry, unthankful and not praising. You are so burdened by all the "expectations" and requirements of life that you cannot even explain what is going on and God is the source of your pain. Those that identify themselves as Christian or believers or..... are expressing similar problems and discomfort and when you mention scripture or praying or God, you are declared an enemy.

What in the heck is going on???? Can you really study and read and go to church and live in a "christian Home" and not utilize the things you are taught. Does the Word not heal and encourage and strengthen??? It does for me!!! Others teach and share that it does for them, but yet we have people so miserable and so hurt and angry and uncomfortable. Why????

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jm2yua3AUzs


Could it be we are not BELIEVING AND WALKING IN THE TRUTH. We read our scripture and we do our prayer and then we are off to our day in our strength and in our knowledge and do not access things until the next session??? Scripture is REAL!!!! IT is the medicine to cure and strengthen. IT is the answer to the question.. GO to the Doctor!!!!

my favorite flair on facebook is "STOP, DROP and PRAY"! Do it. Get real with God. He knows everything anyway and He alone can make your life the life of VICTORY, PEACE, JOY, SECURITY and most importantly these days HOPE!!!

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Why do we do the things we do? How can we change things we do not like?

Paul (or Peter) { I get them confused all the time} Asked this question in scripture.
"why do I do the things I do not want to do and why do I not do the things I want to do and know that I should". {Tell me where this scripture is for a gift :) }.

"Being eager and willing to improve is not the same as indecisiveness. Be diligent and dedicated to being refined and always aspire to be Holy and it will require change."

"Refinement and purification require Change!!"

"Moss only grows on the Southside of sedentary items" Lesson don't be sedentary, keep feet moving and always face "up yonder"!!!!"

The world of self awareness, psychology and therapy have many theories to explain our thinking processes and behavior. Some discount our "evil or sinful nature" most blame bad behavior on bad circumstances, traumas, and bad childhood experiences in the early years.

But, what does the Bible say about our behavior and about thinking? Do we really have to dredge up all our thoughts and feelings from our past in order to claim a positive change and set a course to an abundant life? Do we really have to pour of darkest thoughts and feelings out to someone? Do we really have to take YEARS taking baby steps of changing all the "bad or unacceptable" behaviors that we do? As a christian this can be very confusing, but digging into the scriptures and through prayer we can be guided to "the Truth. The Great Physcian is in and He is omniscient, He already knows exactly what is to blame for your bad feelings, thoughts and behavior. You do not have to say a word!! The Holy Spirit can allow you to release the information in grunts and tears and Christ can translate those, but does not need you to do anything! Whoa hoo. A doctor that does not need ANYTHING!! from you in order to come up with the proper treatment plan, He KNOWS!! you, He KNOWS everything about your past, the current situation, and the future. He KNOWS what your limitations are, what you capable of (even the things you do not know about yourself yet!!) He can change your emotions, reactions, thoughts and behavior. He will change your life!!!.

While doing my classwork I came acrossed this site and thought it really puts things in a simple and concise what. Check out this site about counseling and what the bible says about thinking (psychology) and Counseling. Talk to your church or a local church many great, reputable Biblical counselors are connected to churches and can help facilitate your appointment with the Great Physician for your complete healing. http://www.eternalministries.org/articles/ComparingCounselingTheories.htm

Sunday, January 11, 2009

Are you prepared for your life?

Okay, get a drink or a snack this is going to take a few minutes..... :)
But, this is a big revelation that I learned and it changed my life! Many ask about Depression and other issues and there are many solutions in the "world" but many are very costly and are not solutions they are bandaids and some are just exchanges for other issues. The only thing I found that helped was going back to the drawing board and fixing my foundation. There is one way!! JESUS, and that is the answer to any question. There are many ways to say it. What can make a person cleaned, healed and complete (Nothing but the blood of JESUS).

Lately there has been alot of talking about what makes a person a christian. (CHOICE) What makes a church minister? (Obedience and Honoring God's leading)Expectations of people in need to be ministered to by others, and especially the church. What is expected of people who have been ministered to? How can you minister to others when you can barely lift your head and take care of your family and/or yourself? (Because you are strengthened by Christ, who is in you; and you are sharing the burden with Christ, like a team of oxen with a yoke){If you choose to accept His invitation to allow him to carry your burdens in several scripture, and you renew your mind} Christ tells us that if He brings us to something, He plans on bringing us through it!! AMEN..

Well talk is cheap, unless it is about you and its TRUE!!! and all talk and no action is just noise.

Our walk with Christ is to be personal first. Read Genesis and see how Adam talked with God and God spoke to Adam, before He gave him Eve. And then they CONTINUED their relationship, but now God also talked to Eve. Look at the other "gifts" they received. Eve was given the gift of having Adam to share his knowledge of God with her since he had KNOWN him longer. Knowledge is just not to puff you up and to dangle in front of others to make yourself look superior. If you KNOW it, you should be able to SHOW it! If you are unwilling to share your knowledge, you may have a pride issue, as that knowledge was a gift from God, it was not because your brain is bigger or faster than someone elses. God REVEALED that information to you for a reason that will help others.
If we think about the Bible like a parachutte, it really makes this pretty clear. Para is where we get our words preparation from.


















The Bible helps us prepare for......... what God has planned for us to do. Your gifts and talents are to equipped you to be..(famous and worshipped??) I hope not the only one that is designed to be worshipped is God. When are designed to guide people to the father. That is what Jesus did, "I am doing my fathers work". He talked and taught everyone that wanted to know, Samaritans, Tax collectors, adultresses, Jews, gentiles, whoever would listen and choose to submit to the Fathers Will.
How smart would you look jumping out of the airplane with your parachutte closed??? Saying to yourself, "Oh, it is easy to put up, and I have heard how to do it, I will wait til I get a little closer to the ground and really need it." Well, what if it does not open, and you need the back up, if you wait to long you won't have enough time. Most people would check their chute before they board the plane. As soon as they jump from the plane you begin working with your shoot and you have learned how it works which strings do what. You do not wait to "figure it out when you need it".
I think of my Bible in much the same way. I want to know all there is to know about this awesome book that contains the words my Lord and Savior actually spoke to people who were inspired to write them. Peter was a real person, one with some issues in his personality and seems to struggle with pride a bit. But, he walked with Jesus!! Man I want to know everything I can learn about Peter, so when he writes about Jesus I can see him as if I were looking through Peter's eyes. You do not get that clarity without studying. You can spend years studying all the biblical languages, translation, history and all the related things to truly understand the things that are written in the Bible. Or, you can pray and have God reveal the things you need to focus on and learn to be prepared for you life. For him to bring people into your life to teach you, challenge you, and prepare you to know Him more and to truly understand what you are reading and how to apply it to your life. It is not good for man to be alone, I think God meant that for more than just why he gave Adam a help meet. I think that is why he calls us to work together with other believers. Churches are usually gatherings of like minded believers to minister and work in the work of the Lord. Churches can be like a parachute that is left uninflated too. All the people working in one direction, can make the "CHURCH" successful and available for those who need Christ to run in like a fortress. Those that are using their Bibles and eating at the banquet table of the Lord and are regularly speaking with their Lord and Savior, receiving the love and encouragment that they need are then equipped to help others. A full functioning church looks like the parachuttes we had in school.

We raise our hand to the Lord and praise Him and in doing that we make a place for people to come and find the Lord. We do not have to go drag them in. We do not have to promise them temporal sollutions to their problems. When they truly want the Lord, they know who has him, and where the churchs that look like the inflated parachutte, welcoming them in. But, remember doing the parachutte, you do not stay in the center, you come in, enjoy the air a couple of times and then you find a place along the edge to help raise and lower the parachutte for others. If you are having trouble raising and lowering the parachutte the others there will help you. But, you have to tell them you need help and that you want them to help you.
It is the same way with the Church, You have to tell people that you are in need, they are busy focusing on those running into the parachutte and in praising God, talking to Him and listening to Him talk to them. Be willing to pray about the situation first, and wait on the Lord to direct the steps to talk. Talking to God and asking Him to reveal what you really need is the best way, in many situations something spiritual is at the root of the issue. We are to be looking to God for our sustaining, not our spouses, family, friends, even the Church is not always the source of our assistance. Many Biblical Christian Counselors will point you to scriptures as part of their therapy. They are able to give convential methods too, but when you really need a localized connection to the Lord it is a good, safe and confidential way to gain the renewed perspective and direction you need without having to become vulnerable to strangers. Sometimes the trial is going to be used to teach and purify us. We usually are not willing to wait, we want to know, we want control but God is in Control and we must learn to wait on Him and then look for your comfort to come, you may be surprised who he sends with the leading of the Holy Spirit.
If you are needing, or wanting to KNOW the Lord, or needing or wanting to talk and hear the Lord talk to you. Stop what you are doing and pray right now. If you are part of a church, take a step in Faith and talk to someone there, or email me or post a comment here and I will help you get your parachute open and work to find a group in which you can join in and see others coming to find the Lord, and enjoy hollering WHOA HOO!!! This is what life is all about.. Sharing the awesome Lord and Savior that can heal, comfort, change, renew, inspire and will some day be coming to collect His believers!!!
I want to be in that number, when the roll is called up yonder!! Don't you???