***********The Playlist Player as at the bottom of the Blog*************
Listen to Amazing Love to set the mood! then click the pause II button so you can hear the video songs. If you have time listen to some of the other songs on the playlist :). ******************************************
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u6_s0QIbI94
To me Love is the Ultimate Gift, as if it is going to grow and take over the relationship it has to mean a submittal and surrender of one's agenda, dreams and self in order to create a Union... and an "We, Us" mentality. I tend to give over too easily and not hold onto enough ground to have room for "the off days and a place to retreat" in the times that you do need a "Me place, or moment". I am a runner, when I get offended, hurt, mad, sad whatever and don't KNOW how the reaction is going to work out, so I can accomodate and play "chess" (have my next move ready so I am not "jumped" or "captured" and out of play. I tend to retreat, "go for a drive", "Go to Wal-mart, ha ha..." but instead of enjoying the solitude and freedom to do what I WANT, I NEED, I THINK... I am looking for things for others, and trying to figure out how to get back into the "game of life". But, always the giver, the "Loser" of things, points, wants ect.. makes for a gloomy and bitter individual. If you give something and intend to MAKE a reaction/response a certain way, it is "kind of" manipulative, yes, "everybody" (most people do it) but that does not make it right or healthy to a person or relationship. If you don't find your footing in relationships, the rocks get much bigger and sharper in Marriage if you get to that part.
Your Love expression and Philosophy does'nt have to be Reactive/and responsive to what you receive, you can Choose to Love, freely, powerfully and your "reciprication" and what you receive is in accordance with HIM who made the covenant. See I Corinthians 13:1-10 and then see the benefits of that kind of love, in Solomon. That is God's Word to spark the relationship and His ways are perfect. Vows are promises, they can also be helpful if used as guidelines and for those involved in Faith and Belief Systems, if thought of as covenants and precepts it gives each "lover" a guide to coming into the circle and then much like Abraham, after collecting all the "necessary" items for the sacramental sacrifice, he went into a deep sleep and the Covenant was completed by Jesus Christ so that it would not be broken and call for the death of he who broke the commitment. (Forgiveness is much like the "giving over to Christ and allowing Him to "Keep His Promise of Faithfulness and continued loved" that humans are not capable of keeping to the letter of the LAW!). "Its Not really a THINKING THING! it is more of a powerful inner river that carries us away and we are JUST in it!".
Once we can "appropriately and Authentically Sacrifice for the relationship" the results can be quite "Visibly Pleasurable" for both members of the relationship. "Steamy Windows" can keep a gentleness and classiness both are comfortable and can allow still enjoying the "Intellectual tandem and affection exchange" that leaves you with the blushing and fullfilled feeling that keeps you hungry and busy making arrangements for the next, meeting!
That is Love in my book! ha ha... It can be fun and enjoyable even if it is still in the "building phase" Love is a process, it is powerful and it has risks and injuries around the bends but "cleaning up the collisions and bandaging the injuries can be so much of a healing and bonding experience even those are celebrated. An older mentor told me once, "It is your choice to "FEEL loved and appreciated" whether they mean it that way or not, even if you feel they are "taking more than was offered and/or they do not appreciate your sacrafices, remember you came to the circle in Obedience to GOD not your mate, and you willingly gave the items to GOD, and HE made your COVENANT! for you, so when you feel like you can't do it anymore, LET GOD do it, just stay in the circle! and focus on LOVE because that is what you receive from GOD on the other side of the triangle! and through the 3rd string of the cord!.". Words to totally live and LOVE by! 22 years and counting!
As for me and my heart, "We will live and LOVE through dedication to HIM and with admiration for the awesome gift, of him, whom I have loved and cherished and fought and irritated, and redeemed my errors as best as I can and then taken myself to the circle to wait for him to come and reaffirm the bond that was set for us as secure and the door to the ARK!.
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Listen to Amazing Love to set the mood! then click the pause II button so you can hear the video songs. If you have time listen to some of the other songs on the playlist :). ******************************************
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u6_s0QIbI94
To me Love is the Ultimate Gift, as if it is going to grow and take over the relationship it has to mean a submittal and surrender of one's agenda, dreams and self in order to create a Union... and an "We, Us" mentality. I tend to give over too easily and not hold onto enough ground to have room for "the off days and a place to retreat" in the times that you do need a "Me place, or moment". I am a runner, when I get offended, hurt, mad, sad whatever and don't KNOW how the reaction is going to work out, so I can accomodate and play "chess" (have my next move ready so I am not "jumped" or "captured" and out of play. I tend to retreat, "go for a drive", "Go to Wal-mart, ha ha..." but instead of enjoying the solitude and freedom to do what I WANT, I NEED, I THINK... I am looking for things for others, and trying to figure out how to get back into the "game of life". But, always the giver, the "Loser" of things, points, wants ect.. makes for a gloomy and bitter individual. If you give something and intend to MAKE a reaction/response a certain way, it is "kind of" manipulative, yes, "everybody" (most people do it) but that does not make it right or healthy to a person or relationship. If you don't find your footing in relationships, the rocks get much bigger and sharper in Marriage if you get to that part.
Your Love expression and Philosophy does'nt have to be Reactive/and responsive to what you receive, you can Choose to Love, freely, powerfully and your "reciprication" and what you receive is in accordance with HIM who made the covenant. See I Corinthians 13:1-10 and then see the benefits of that kind of love, in Solomon. That is God's Word to spark the relationship and His ways are perfect. Vows are promises, they can also be helpful if used as guidelines and for those involved in Faith and Belief Systems, if thought of as covenants and precepts it gives each "lover" a guide to coming into the circle and then much like Abraham, after collecting all the "necessary" items for the sacramental sacrifice, he went into a deep sleep and the Covenant was completed by Jesus Christ so that it would not be broken and call for the death of he who broke the commitment. (Forgiveness is much like the "giving over to Christ and allowing Him to "Keep His Promise of Faithfulness and continued loved" that humans are not capable of keeping to the letter of the LAW!). "Its Not really a THINKING THING! it is more of a powerful inner river that carries us away and we are JUST in it!".
Once we can "appropriately and Authentically Sacrifice for the relationship" the results can be quite "Visibly Pleasurable" for both members of the relationship. "Steamy Windows" can keep a gentleness and classiness both are comfortable and can allow still enjoying the "Intellectual tandem and affection exchange" that leaves you with the blushing and fullfilled feeling that keeps you hungry and busy making arrangements for the next, meeting!
That is Love in my book! ha ha... It can be fun and enjoyable even if it is still in the "building phase" Love is a process, it is powerful and it has risks and injuries around the bends but "cleaning up the collisions and bandaging the injuries can be so much of a healing and bonding experience even those are celebrated. An older mentor told me once, "It is your choice to "FEEL loved and appreciated" whether they mean it that way or not, even if you feel they are "taking more than was offered and/or they do not appreciate your sacrafices, remember you came to the circle in Obedience to GOD not your mate, and you willingly gave the items to GOD, and HE made your COVENANT! for you, so when you feel like you can't do it anymore, LET GOD do it, just stay in the circle! and focus on LOVE because that is what you receive from GOD on the other side of the triangle! and through the 3rd string of the cord!.". Words to totally live and LOVE by! 22 years and counting!
As for me and my heart, "We will live and LOVE through dedication to HIM and with admiration for the awesome gift, of him, whom I have loved and cherished and fought and irritated, and redeemed my errors as best as I can and then taken myself to the circle to wait for him to come and reaffirm the bond that was set for us as secure and the door to the ARK!.
/---------------------\
[_________]
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If you ain't feeling the love, maybe its not that I am not giving it maybe you need to come back to the circle with your items!. I am doing my part, I am floating and contributing maybe it is just not the way you thought it should be and wanted it to be. Look in my eyes and feel what is coming from my heart and see if it moves you.... (if not maybe my boxing gloves will and then you will FEEL ME!)
